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08 June 2017

How about you?

Ever had one of those days?

One of those days when you wake up listening to the birds & wishing you were that happy...
One of those days when your to do list is overwhelmingly long...
One of those days when you have minimal motivation to do anything, a brain too tired to focus,
and figuring out where to begin is overwhelming.....

Have you ever had one of those days when....
...you look around you and wonder if they are also struggling & better at hiding it?
when you can handle the snarky attitudes better than kindness?
when kindness will break the thin barrier....
into the area where acceptance faces reality...
...where hope is questioned....
where you wonder if it is all worth it?

Have you ever had one of those days when...
...your pet won't leave your side... as if they know the turmoil and struggle within?
when uncovering your couch of textbooks & teaching supplies is your major accomplishment?
when all you want your camera &flowers & an escape into beauty?
... each of those require energy...
...energy I don't have.

Have you ever had one of those days when...
...you realize you are good at providing help but horrible at asking for it?
when you over apologize when someone says yes because you are sure there are better things they could be doing with their time and money.

Have you ever had one of those days when...
...you realize that without caring for people through 3+ jobs you feel lost...
...you feel useless...
you feel as if you are not ENOUGH?

Have you ever had one of those days when...
...you can't pay for your basic necessities of life & then your car dies & is not reparable?
when you think.... Lord, I can't handle one more thing...
...and then you spend 6 hours in the ER?
Have you ever had one of those days....
...when you call your mom FOUR times because you just need something...
...and her voice is like a warm hug?
 Have you ever had one of those days...
when you wished someone else understood?
A day when someone answered these questions
with a "YES!"
because then you would know you are not alone?

I am asking the questions..
I am answering "Yes!"
I am happy to listen...
Don't walk this alone.

I was convicted tonight as I did my quiet time and read from Jesus Calling.  It is amazing how many days the readings in this book are spot on! Today was a day like above.  My to do list was a mile long, I had the energy of Eeyore on downers and was moving at the speed of a sloth riding a snail through peanut butter. I have now been out of work several months, exhausted all of my savings, sold off my back up oils, called in old favors, and worked as many odd jobs as I can find. I'm at the bottom of the well and there are still two trips in the future on top of the basic necessities (housing, electricity, water, internet, cell, gas). 
One trip is a necessity and long overdo.  I will be going to The Mayo Clinic July 9-19 for intensive testing and consultations with specialists.  This trip requires airfare for me and my folks (I have to have someone transport me to and from tests and my memory has taken a real hit from the concussion -- not a great historian at this point), housing, food, gas, rental car, and medical bills.  Did I mention I have no insurance?
The second trip is one my heart and soul need.  It is a mission trip to El Salvador with a small group from my church and Compassion International. I began a Go Fund Me page in hopes of raising the money needed for El Salvador and one of my best friends began a Go Fund Me page for my trip to the Mayo Clinic.  This is hard for me.  I have never been without a job and while I have an offer I will be taking.... it is part time, short term, and doesn't cover things now.....

So what do I do?
I WORRY!!!!!
(thus the conviction)
The beginning of today's devotion:
"I am all around you, like a cocoon of Light.  My Presence with you is a promise, independent of your awareness of Me.  Many things can block this awareness, but the major culprit is worry." -Jesus Calling
Today's reference verses:
"22 Then Jesus said to his disciples: “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. 23 For life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. 24 Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! 25 Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life[a]? 26 Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?
27 “Consider how the wild flowers grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you, not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 28 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today, and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, how much more will he clothe you—you of little faith! 29 And do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it. 30 For the pagan world runs after all such things, and your Father knows that you need them. 31 But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well."

I am praying for patience, blessings, job availability and the energy to do it, as well as ability and courage to ask and receive help.

If you are someone who would like to help you can...
...1. pray for me
...2. donate
...3. share the Go Fund Me sites (even if you can't donate)
...4. give me a shout if this is a post that hit home with you.
...5. pay attention to those around you... who is described by my feelings above? Be a listener.

God Bless!
Christa

gf.me/u/sj5uw  (Mayo Clinic in Minnesota -Go Fund Me Page)

gf.me/u/sj5c4 (Compassion trip to El Salvador - Go Fund Me Page)


18 April 2017

A Tale of Reawakening...

Come sit a spell and allow me to tell you a tale....
A tale of life...
A tale of challenges...
A tale of survival...
A tale of timid faith and haphazard quiet times...
A tale of busy...
A tale of overwhelmed...
A tale of an uncomfortable wake up call....
....a wake up call that was not the first....

A tale of how out of love for His daughter God began his chat with a gentle whisper....
A tale that has resulted in a mighty shove...
A tale of a busy young lady too busy to listen...
A tale of an invert scare to listen.....
... Scared?!....
....Yep!....
...for it is a tale of someone scared that He will ask more than she "can" give.

It's one of those times in life when you look back over the recent past and wonder how you didn't see it...
A job I needed to leave but didn't have the heart too... I loved my patients, their families, and my coworkers too much.  In my last year there.....
In February: median nerve injury resulting in significant time out of work and lasting deficits that are still present.
In August: severe concussion resulting in significant time out of work, increased stress at work near constant naps under my desk in between patients, cognitive confusion, vestibular issues, migraine, and so much more...... also lasting deficits ... still present...... Resulting in a second round of vestibular PT, cognitive therapy, lists all over my home, and a planner designed for someone with dementia :)
Did I mention October the year before was a large ovarian mass requiring surgery and significant time out of work. 
...and  yet...
...too chicken to leave.  Surely working your hardest and it never being good enough causing you to be miserable in a setting you know is better than beginning at a new location.  My decision to leave was abrupt.  I had been praying about it intensely for a week -- as well as asking friends to pray with me.  That day I knew without a shadow of a doubt that I was not meant to be there longer.  I had given my skills, my talents, my gifts, and part of me.  A big part of me.  It was confirmed that evening by several friends.

Did I take time away to fully heal? No.  Money runs the world.  Just because my brain couldn't retrieve basic words from my vocabulary and vestibular deficits caused (cause) me to feel as if I am constantly on a boat......
... rent is still due...
... electricity and water are required...
... food is occasionally necessary.....

....and  so....
I went back to teaching (with major modifications) and took on a new challenge as a pediatric PT.  I have no doubt it is where I was supposed to be at that time but also have no doubt it wasn't where God planned for me to stay.  

.... this current break has resulted in....
... a consistent Quiet Time...
... blind and terrifying Faith and trust that He's got me...
... time to address the deficits that cause me to feel like a fish out of water...
... deficits that at times scare me....

A time to sleep (my body gives me no choice).... neurons require rest for restoration....
A time to reassess the dreams I have always had and not recently acknowledged. 
A time to re-evaluate my priorities.

As a young child --- for as long as I can remember --- I wanted to be a doctor.
My goal was to work for Doctors Without Borders. 

The pull of love for family/friends and need to be closer pulls me in one direction.
The deep ache and yearning in my heart pulls me toward far away lands and those less fortunate.
A dream of being able (financially and time) to do the jobs I love (PT and Education) while also participating in medical missions and philanthropic activities. 

God put part of the answer in front of me 2 years ago.  
Two years ago I was waiting on my essential oil premium starter kit to arrive.
I was excited because then my sister would quit telling me it would be good for me...
Little did I know what God had planned....

There is not a day that I don't use essential oils...emotional support, sleep support, body system support, chemical free cleaning, chemical free living, facial/skin products, and an improved sense of gratitude for the plants, herbs, fruits, and flowers that God has provided for us to use for healthier living.

2 years ago my older sister was oily and I was awaiting a kit with plans to use Thieves to support my immune system.  My parents had no interest in oils......

Present day... My sister is still oily... I am the oily lady people send their friends to for education and support.... My mom is oily and frequently telling me of new uses for oils ..... and the biggest surprise?.. my dad is now oily.  He wants the diffuser each night, has several rollers for different purposes, and recently learned how well essential oils can support the musculoskeletal system. 

I resisted in the beginning.  How could I possibly share my love for this amazing thing I had found? He reminded me that one of my gifts in Education.  I love to teach!  I love to learn new things and watch the excitement on someone else discovering their own abilities and uses for essential oils.

I don't know where it will lead but I do know that God has ordained this.  He handed it to me 2 years ago and I ignored it....  Business pages are going into my old lady planner and this girl is going to share the love!

What has he placed right in front of you?  What are you missing?




27 March 2017

A Family of Faith

Written on March 5, 2017....

I love that my family is a family of faith.  It is generational on both sides and a blessing.  A family of strong Christian women who truly understand how blessed they are.  I grew up with a Grandmama and a Grandmother who were each in the Word daily.  One taught me how important it is to use the gift of teaching and the other taught me how to help my love ones know that they are cherished.... not only by me but also by the Father in times of happiness AND trials.
(I know -- I am working on getting back to this gift.)

My Mama has carried on the tradition.  She has demonstrated the importance of showing Jesus' love to everyone you meet, continuing to learn more about the Word, mentoring kids and newer Christians -- and she is always available to answer a question because I can't remember or what I find when I dig doesn't match what I remember.  My sister is amazing and has turned her gift of teaching toward women in her community and continues to learn more daily.

Why the reminiscing about these ladies and so many more women in my family?

Yesterday I planned to leave my aunt and uncle's house but my body decided differently and so I was blessed with a great gift.  Quiet time and reminders of who we are in Christ, how much God loves us, and how ONLY we compare ourselves to others.... with my Aunt.  Another woman of faith who has led Bible Study programs and has shown God's love through her great gift of hospitality.

I found a Young Living box on my doorstep when I arrived home.... It contained an oil set I have been dreaming about for over a year.  Oils of Ancient Scriptures.  My Mama and I are going to do a study around it and as I told her it arrived became a conversation of what the oils smell like, when they were used, how they were used, and what it was like at this time.

The five minute "our Scripture oils came in" conversation became much longer and I knew for certain that God had orchestrated the entire 2 days to remind me of the legacy I come from and who I am as a woman of Christ.

I didn't make it to church today because I got off the phone with my mom and got lost in the Bible --- but I know that the messages I received were the ones He knew I needed to hear.

Who do you have speaking truth into your life? Is there someone who can pray for you at a moment's notice? Tell you when you are in the wrong?.....



14 February 2017

2 Years Later.... more grey hair..... and a tiny bit wiser.

WOW!

I can't believe it has really been 2 years since I sat with just this screen and my thoughts.... (and Lucy snoring beside me). 
So many things are different.... some things are unchanged.....

On a different day I will update on the who, the where, and the when ....
...along with the quotes on my blog homepage :)

For now.....
     the reason why I am here....

I met a young lady last month and it is a friendship that shows the handprints of God in its creation, placement, and plans.  We are but two pawns in the game --- luckily both of us is willing to listen to the still small voice.  I have been hearing it for years (although not always listening)... she is new to this amazing life and beginning to hear when He speaks. 

One day....
if she gives me permission....
I will tell the story of the last couple of weeks....

Until then....
...the thing that brought me here today... Valentine's Day.... at 1:30am (2:50am completion) when I should be sleeping...

I am a quote fanatic!
TRULY!!

Some people are addicted to drugs... or food... or sex...
I am addicted to:
caring
quotes
flowers
old Ball jars
old quilts
(old stuff in general)
Essential Oils
art/crafts/home goods made by local artists
CSAs
and
local farms/gardens....

AND....farm eggs :)

I encourage my students each semester to dig for quotes in the first week or two that can be uplifting, supportive, inspiring, and funny --- for later in the semester when life gets a bit rough. 
(No, this is not a reflection on me as a professor)

Tonight.... after being cooped up in the house since Thursday with what could be the flu.... I was in need of encouragement.... and I began looking for quotes and verses for the young lady mentioned above... and myself.

             One quote really caught my eye...
Now -- my life is my life and others have it much harder than I.  I love most parts of my life and God is helping me to learn through the others.  I have a roof over my head, food in my stomach, and supportive family and friends... ---> the things I need.

I make it a point to keep my pity parties down to a minimum both those spoken aloud and those in my head.

What jumped out today tonight THIS MORNING was the "finisher" portion of that verse.  Of course we could also look at it from an Alpha and Omega or  Beginning and End view.

I love that this verse encapsulates the fact that God was with me in the very beginning where He knit me in my mama's womb  (for this special package -- I required an extra month --> EXTRA special) and He will be with us at the end.

The Greatest part of that???
EVERYTHING in between!

It means He is walking with me, or carrying me, through ALL of the parts!!!
The happy days --when I am celebrating a wedding, a birth, a beautiful flower, a patient walking or rolling for the  first time....
The harder days --when a family member needs help and I can't provide it, a patient red flags for cancer, a car going into the shop for an oil change and coming out needing so so much more, or a brain that feels like mush, can't remember anything, and tricks my body into thinking it is on a boat ... even when I am sitting or standing still with my back against the wall and feet securely on the floor.

Medicine can be useful, Essential Oils are great,
but the fact that I am not alone in this journey is the BEST!